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Do you think it is ok for a man and a woman and another woman to live under one roof as a family? adult content

Ok, so here are the details. A man and woman live together. They were once married but got divorced and now are back together. The woman is bi-sexual and wants a relationship with a woman and a man. The plans are for the bi-sexual woman to invite a lesbian into their house to live together as one big happy family. The couple lives in California so the relationship is more accepting in the area to outsiders. The two women will be together sexually and the man and woman will be together but the lesbian will never be with anyone but the female. The couple have 5 children and they know how it is as the mother has had girlfriends before. Do you think as long as all parties involved are ok with the arrangement it is ok?

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:08 PM on Mar. 5, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (41)
  • Why wouldn't it be? They all consent to it.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 1:10 PM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • i personally wouldnt do it but i guess if everyone involved is okay with it then why not.

    Answer by proudmom611 at 1:11 PM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • noooooo

    Answer by nadiah09 at 1:11 PM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • no

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 1:12 PM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • Yeah, why wouldn't it be ok so long as they are all ok with it and adults?

    Answer by Mrs.BAT at 1:12 PM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • Everyone has open eyes about the situation. No one is lying. There is nothing illegal going on. If it works for them, all the power to them.

    Answer by Nonoluna at 1:12 PM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • i dont think the children need to be exposed to it. what kind of idea will spread to them? that it's okay to have multiple partners? no, not okay in my book. "to each their own"

    Answer by tnm786 at 1:12 PM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • nooooo

    Answer by lelly1019 at 1:13 PM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • As long as they all are in agreement, I don't see a problem. Besides, it's their lives ... if they are happy, more power to them.

    Answer by SpiritedWitch at 1:13 PM on Mar. 5, 2011

  • it is too messy of a situation especially with kids involved. the adults have a right to sleep with whom ever they want to but they need to have some class. they do not have to expose the kids to all this mess why not keep it simple in the eyes of the kids??. that would not work for me at all. no each his own.

    Answer by gwen20 at 1:16 PM on Mar. 5, 2011

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