So my husband and I are separated and I haven't asked him to contribute financially to my apartment or pay anything for our daughter. I'm hoping we can be a family again soon. This month I couldn't pay rent so I asked him to pay and he did but now he's being a jerk and taking cheap shots at me. I care for a little boy, I barely make enough to cover my expenses but im doing it. I recently had a miscarriage so i'm still sad about it but made the decision to go to nursing school. He was all for it but then realized that he'd be paying for everything. I've gotten the feeling he was trying to talk me out of it but nonchalantly. I really want to go to nursing school because if we don't work out which it seems lik its not that I have a good career. I want to know am I being selfish for wanting him to be financially there for me and his daughter for the next year?
I wanted to add for those who are saying im being selfish... the only reason I couldn't afford my rent this month is because our daughter's birthday was this month and I bought all her gifts! He was just as surprised to see the gifts that were opened as she was.
After reading every one's responses I want to say thanks for the support and I don't think Im being selfish... I think im being stupid for loving him the way I do but what's a girl to do.Answer Question
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