SO has been sick for two months. He has an infection that took the drs a while to even get the right meds for it & on top of that its apparently an infection that is really hard to get rid of. Here we are two months later & he still is trying not to over stress himself to prolong the process of becoming better *sigh* okay makes sense he still has some pain.
Well I am sick of having no help anymore. He literally sits on the couch all friggin' day long doing nothing. He dosent help clean up, dosent play with our three year old, wont help run errands, nothing. I have been pulling double duty for a long time now & I am burnt out. He dosent understand that once in a while I snap at him & when I do he'll say something about him being sick & how I am so mean for not being considerate while he is sick.... hello I have been for a long time now including sevearl late night trips to the ER, picking up things from the store for him, getting my three year old & myself out of the house so he can rest in silence, doing all the housework everything, taking care of our child every second...... I am sick of it.
We went to florida the other week too & what do you know I ended up doing everything. So even on my one vacation in the last five years & probably my only one for a few years to come I didnt get to rest. What matters is our daughter had the time of her little life & I worked damn hard to make sure her experience was not hindered in any way. Now I get it he was sick & still is sick, I'm not holding the trip against him I am just venting here. He did get taken to the hospital while down there when we were in disneyworld (that was a mess of a day within itself) so he was very sick at that point.
Sorry ladies just had to vent it somewhere. This was sparked by him saying why dont you take our child out to play in the snow before the weather gets bad. Good idea except the house is such a disaster, we are moving in three weeks so packing has to be done, etc I asked him why dosent he take her out in the snow he got pissy with the I'm sick crap *sigh* just a little help would be nice here.
Answer by morenarfr05 at 11:36 AM on Mar. 6, 2011
Answer by Rosehawk at 12:04 PM on Mar. 6, 2011
Answer by spottedpony at 2:37 PM on Mar. 6, 2011
Answer by autbot at 10:01 PM on Mar. 6, 2011