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If your husband cheated more then once would you stay or would you go?

Even if you have no job and he pays all the bills!

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:23 PM on Mar. 6, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (21)
  • I would go

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 9:24 PM on Mar. 6, 2011

  • I would be gone after the first time...cheaters will always cheat they will never change IMO.

    Answer by momofone072506 at 9:25 PM on Mar. 6, 2011

  • i would have gone after one time of cheating. You are worth more than that!

    Answer by parajumper3 at 9:25 PM on Mar. 6, 2011

  • I would stay until I found a way to support myself and my kid(s), whether that be 2 years to finish grad school or 2 weeks after finding a job that could pay my bills. I would also find a good lawyer and file for divorce as soon as I got on my own feet.


    Answer by kaylan010 at 9:26 PM on Mar. 6, 2011

  • He wouldn't get the chance to do it twice... He wouldn't be allowed back in our home if he were to cheat, and he would be paying alimony for a very long time... Along with my lawyers fees...

    Answer by MrsLeftlane at 9:28 PM on Mar. 6, 2011

  • I stayed and tried to make it work. Wish I had gone when I first found out. Wasted a lot of years and way too many hearbreaks to count. I was miserable. Leave. He won't change, just get sneakier.

    Answer by Kimimale at 9:28 PM on Mar. 6, 2011

  • I'd be leaving immediately

    Answer by AprilDJC at 9:28 PM on Mar. 6, 2011

  • Go..... Start looking for a job, you will also get child support and maybe alimony.

    Answer by Charis76 at 9:29 PM on Mar. 6, 2011

  • I would be long gone after the first time.

    Answer by Simplicity3 at 9:33 PM on Mar. 6, 2011

  • If I had no job yes I would leave, but if he had no job then he would pack his shit and be out the door in a minute

    Answer by soon2bmmy at 9:40 PM on Mar. 6, 2011

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