Ok ladies DH's best friend needs some help. He is 27 and has been divorced for about 7 months. (his ex cheated on him) He is one of those guys that is just well a "catch" He is really attractive, nice, funny, financially secure (and SMART with his money!) and ALL he wants is to find a woman to settle down with and have children...like he really wants kids before he is 30. He has been doing the online dating thing and its not working out to well. He has been out with a few ladies and just hasn't connected. He doesn't go to church and says he doesn't want to meet a girl somewhere like a club or a bar because he doesn't really like going to clubs and bars. He keeps asking me where to meet a nice girl and also here is the one i need your help with lol....... He wants to know if he sees a woman that he thinks is cute somewhere like the grocery store or the mall or whatever HOW can he go up and try to talk to them? He says he feels like if he did that any normal girl would think it was weird...So I am really trying to help him...I feel like it would be awesome for DH and i to have some more "couple" friends also DH and i met in a REALLY weird way and i kinda feel like i didn't really do the "dating" thing so i am not much help. Thanks for looking ladies! The sooner he gets a girlfriend or a wife the better for me because then i get my hubby all to myself again (he has been over here A LOT since they split up!)
Answer QuestionAsked by Anonymous at 4:12 AM on Mar. 7, 2011 in Relationships
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Answer by rio_burb at 8:11 AM on Mar. 7, 2011
suggest he go about his life doing what he loves..and if there's a chance women like doing those things, too, that'd be a good place to start to find someone with common interests: sports/golf/tennis?, community events, hobby stores, volunteering, etc.
You know whats funny I didn't think about that...He volunteers at after school events at the grade school where he works..I bet he could meet a lot of women there! Hmmmmm I guess what i need to do is help boost his self esteem. Its so funny to me because he is such a great guy but, has the lowest self esteem...I guess that can happen when your spouse cheats on you huh? So how about a new question lol...any advice on how i can help him build up his self esteem so maybe he can interact a little better with women he meets?
Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 9:23 AM on Mar. 7, 2011
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