Ok,long story short. Cousin has abusive boyfriend,has son,doesn't feed himhe's taken away. Meanwhile she's pregnant,has 2nd son. She lives with mom,no job,not even attempting to find one. Parties at least 5 days a week. If she doesn't get a job by October,#1 son is being put up for adoption. "baby daddy" is bound for prison for DV and robbing his place of work. They broke up a year ago.
6 weeks ago she meets this guy Justin. he's 21 and in the National Guard. 3 weeks into the relationship,they're already talking marriage. He's integrated himself into every aspect of her life. His actions of late border on controlling. I've been there,done that. I know the type personally. He thinks they'll get married and she'll get her son back and all will be peachy. My Spidey sense,lol,is flashing red ever since she met him. I'm sorry,but a woman in her situation is very unlikely to catch a decent guy. He has an agenda. if he's decent,why isn't he with a girl with little to no baggage KWIM? I asked him on FB to meet with him face to face. Not that my assessment will make any difference to her... i guess in the very least I'll have some info to passonto CPS if the need shall arise. You know that 6th sense that's telling you that this just isn't kosher?
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