The visitation schedule we have for our daughter says my ex gets her 1st and 3rd weekend of the month from 4pm sat till 8am Mon. He hardly ever takes it (like once every 3months he'll take a weekend), but when I ask if I can have her on his weekend for something he always makes sure to say no its my time I'm taking her. Anyways my younger kids have spring break next week. We wanted to leave on Thursday, let the kids miss school Friday, and then come back the following Tuesday to go visit my grandma (who is dying of cancer) and some other family. They live 4hrs away. Problem is that weekend could be my ex's weekend if he wanted it.
It doesn't say anything in the agreement about where he picks her up, just says she has to be available. If he happens to call wanting her that Friday would it be ok for me to say ok fine, I'll meet you 1/2 way. So he drives 2hrs, and I drive 2hrs to get my oldest daughter?
Any suggestions? He probably wont take her that weekend anyways, but I know if I asked he'd do it just to make things difficult. That's how he is. He doesn't even keep her on the weekends he does take her, he takes her to his moms house and leaves her there. Thanks ladies!!!
Asked by Anonymous at 12:25 PM on Mar. 7, 2011 in General Parenting
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