I'm in college and there's this little store/market in between all of my classes and I go there daily to get an energy drink/coffee in the morning and lunch stuff when I'm in a hurry.
There's this guy that works there, and at first we'd just say hey and stuff but then about a week and half ago I was really sick and he started really talking to me...telling me how I needed to start getting more sleep and needed to rest and stuff and then it turned into a bit of flirting.
Now every time I walk in there he gets a big smile on his face and talks to me a lot and when he sees me from inside walking by he always motions me in and waves.
Well, the other day he grabs my school id and says he was "trying to memorize how to spell my last name" and I joked that it was cause he wanted to "stalk me on facebook" and he winked and a few days later...he requested me.
We've been sending silly little messages back and fourth and then today I came in a went to the other cashier and he acted jealous in a silly way and I was like "ahh don't be jealous, WE are facebook friends" and he was like "oh yeah, we made facebook love last night" and I know that sounds so immature but he's just silly and down to Earth and I like that cause I'm usually stressing and he keeps me feeling silly and care free.
I just don't know where to go from here. My friends say to tell him that I have a crush so that we don't "pass the point of no return and just become friends" but I just don't know.
I need advice please!
Asked by Anonymous at 12:55 PM on Mar. 7, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by NannyB. at 12:58 PM on Mar. 7, 2011
AWWW......... you do sound like a 8th grader- LOL! (just kidding:) It sounds like he is Crushing just as Much as you are- i'm not sure what the next step should be; maybe ask him if he wants to go get a Coffee with you? i hope things work out with you guys! Wishing you lots of luck:)
Answer by daisyb at 1:03 PM on Mar. 7, 2011
Answer by admckenzie at 1:14 PM on Mar. 7, 2011
your a mom.... are you a married mom? a divorced mom? a single mom? single with dad living with you? single with dad involved? how old is the child? do you live on your own? do you live with mom & dad?
Answer by Anonymous at 4:58 PM on Mar. 7, 2011
feeling like your in 8th grade is an ODD way to put it... screams juvenile.
but your a mom so how you feel has to be tempered by what your real life obligations are now, and your current situation. The feeling is nice... ill give you that but you cant act like you could have years ago before your child.
Answer by Anonymous at 5:00 PM on Mar. 7, 2011