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Hi,
Well i been dating this guy for a while now. Him and his family wants me to meet his grandma. Which i am all about, but what do i do about my daughter who is 4 years old? Should i leave her with my parents? Do i take her with? I am half and half with it all. When i meet her we would have to stay at her house bc she lives up to 6 hours away.

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bridynme

Asked by bridynme at 9:41 PM on Mar. 7, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I'd ask the grandma if she wants me to bring the dd.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 9:45 PM on Mar. 7, 2011

  • ask the grandma, then go with whatever she says
    ElenaC419

    Answer by ElenaC419 at 9:47 PM on Mar. 7, 2011

  • My children go everywhere I go. This includes going to great-grandma's house.
    dustbunny

    Answer by dustbunny at 10:04 PM on Mar. 7, 2011

  • But i never meet her before and i don't know if it would be rude of me to bring her along. but like dustbunny had said she does go every where with me, but i don't want to come off rude or something. if that makes sense, or am i thinking to much into this?
    bridynme

    Comment by bridynme (original poster) at 10:10 PM on Mar. 7, 2011

  • I figure if she's willing to meet you then she's aware that you have a daughter. You're kind of a package deal. :) Find out her preference though. Don't get too worked up. I'm sure it will all work out just fine. :)
    Nonoluna

    Answer by Nonoluna at 10:11 PM on Mar. 7, 2011

  • You and your daughter are a package deal....if she knows you have a child then she probably already expects her to come....I would bring her
    Lucky209

    Answer by Lucky209 at 12:32 AM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • I would meet his family first see if they are safe and worth meeting then invite your kid when some time has passed.
    Betutah

    Answer by Betutah at 2:59 AM on Mar. 8, 2011

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