So here's the deal. I've been friends with this guy for about 5 years. There's always been something more between us, we've both felt it. But up until recently we've kept the relationship strictly friends. Now, things are starting to progress. The issue is, he is just starting to go through a divorce with a girl that I went to high school with. And he has 2 kids with her. I'm 19 years old and have no children. Should I proceed with the relationship? Just how messy can this get?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:27 PM on Mar. 8, 2011 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 2:32 PM on Mar. 8, 2011
Be very careful your not just a rebound. Your safe to him because your friends. Give him some time. I would remain besties and leave a relationship for a better time. Coming outta a marriage is a difficult time. I would offer the suggestion that if you care, leave romantic outta the mix. He is vulnerable. Besides it could ruin any relationship you have. Good luck. Think it through.
Answer by rosetoes at 2:32 PM on Mar. 8, 2011
Are you willing to deal with his EX and his kids?
Right now is not the time to get into a relationship with him. Divorcing and all. When he is officially divorced. Give it 6 months to a year after that. You do not want to be the rebound relationship do you?
Answer by louise2 at 2:33 PM on Mar. 8, 2011