in the past 6months i've had problems with my marriage and someone who tried to split us up, i've dealt with depression since leaving england a year ago, i let so much get to me n let people even make me like i was bad mother, wife and even person and no-one should make people feel like that even when pregnant as im now 6months gone, so i did suffer bad with depression to the point of being suicidal which i am very ashamed of cos i dont feel like a good mum for that but i went and got help and stayed in hospital for a week just after new year, and i realised then my daughter is the only reason why im here and i done it all for her so i could be a better mum to her and her sister when she is born. i am very ashamed of feeling how i did, cos i have a 2year old who needs me and one on the way who has felt everything i have, me and my husband are getting help with our marriage and the person who tried to split us up has left, so we are going back to our normal old ways of a couple again.
Answer by mrsmom110 at 4:13 PM on Mar. 8, 2011
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Answer by CollegeMommy121 at 4:40 PM on Mar. 8, 2011
Remember to take care of yourself first. This is NOT a selfish statement. You need to be happy, healthy and adjusted in order for you to take of your little ones. An unhappy momma cannot take care of children. I hope you have been to a doctor. There are many medications out there for depression. You say you are pregnant. There are meds you can take even being pregnant so talk to your doctor. If you suffer from depression now you may get a bad case of PPD so please talk to your doctor about that too. Be strong.
Answer by laura67-boo at 4:41 PM on Mar. 8, 2011
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Answer by Raine2001 at 5:31 PM on Mar. 8, 2011