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Worst phone call ive ever got *vent* Crying*

the worst phone call i ever got was this morning around 1am

when i was asked can i come verify the body of my husband:(:(:(*


my husband was killed this morning in a car accident at midnight he was on the freeway on his way home from his moms house:(:(


this is the worst day of my life i couldn't even tell you were my head is right now but i just had to let some of it out because i haven't said a word all day i havent even told the girls:( i dont even know how to tell the girls*


vent over*

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LABELmeCUTE

Asked by LABELmeCUTE at 5:18 PM on Mar. 8, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (92)
  • So, so sorry for your loss.
    sweetpotato418

    Answer by sweetpotato418 at 5:20 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • I am so so so sorry. How old are your girls?
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 5:21 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • oh my goodness. i am so so so sorry.
    laura970

    Answer by laura970 at 5:21 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • WOW. That is by far the worst phone call a person can receive. I am so sorry, that is horrible. I can not imagine how you are coping with that. I am so glad your girls are with you and safe. My heart really goes out to your family. : (

    spottedpony

    Answer by spottedpony at 5:21 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • im sorry


    Hugs from me to you and your girls. 

    CraftingMama

    Answer by CraftingMama at 5:22 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • im sorryI am so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine your pain.

    bcauseimthemom

    Answer by bcauseimthemom at 5:22 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • I am soooo sorry.
    SpiritedWitch

    Answer by SpiritedWitch at 5:22 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • I am so very sorry for your loss.

    I have gotten a couple of "midnight phone calls," but nothing that devastating. Those I lost had lived long lives and were not my spouse. You will just be straight with you girls and all cry together. Tell them that their father will always be with them in their hearts. And just hold them tight.

    May your husband's name be for a blessing.
    balagan_imma

    Answer by balagan_imma at 5:22 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • That's absolutely horrible. I'm so, so sorry. I feel horrible for you. I've never been in that situation so I'm really not sure how to go about telling your girls. Are they older or younger? I'm so sorry this happened to your family. You can PM me anytime if you need to talk. I can't pretend to know at all what you're going through but I'll listen and try to help you through anyway I can. Do you at least have a close family that you can lean on right now? God Bless and I'll pray for you and your children.
    Mamapunkin21809

    Answer by Mamapunkin21809 at 5:23 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • hugs

    Christine0813

    Answer by Christine0813 at 5:24 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

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