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Worst phone call ive ever got *vent* Crying*

the worst phone call i ever got was this morning around 1am

when i was asked can i come verify the body of my husband:(:(:(*

my husband was killed this morning in a car accident at midnight he was on the freeway on his way home from his moms house:(:(

this is the worst day of my life i couldn't even tell you were my head is right now but i just had to let some of it out because i haven't said a word all day i havent even told the girls:( i dont even know how to tell the girls*

vent over*

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Asked by LABELmeCUTE at 5:18 PM on Mar. 8, 2011 in Relationships

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  • So, so sorry for your loss.

    Answer by sweetpotato418 at 5:20 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • I am so so so sorry. How old are your girls?

    Answer by louise2 at 5:21 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • oh my goodness. i am so so so sorry.

    Answer by laura970 at 5:21 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • WOW. That is by far the worst phone call a person can receive. I am so sorry, that is horrible. I can not imagine how you are coping with that. I am so glad your girls are with you and safe. My heart really goes out to your family. : (


    Answer by spottedpony at 5:21 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • im sorry

    Hugs from me to you and your girls. 


    Answer by CraftingMama at 5:22 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • im sorryI am so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine your pain.


    Answer by bcauseimthemom at 5:22 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • I am soooo sorry.

    Answer by SpiritedWitch at 5:22 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • I am so very sorry for your loss.

    I have gotten a couple of "midnight phone calls," but nothing that devastating. Those I lost had lived long lives and were not my spouse. You will just be straight with you girls and all cry together. Tell them that their father will always be with them in their hearts. And just hold them tight.

    May your husband's name be for a blessing.

    Answer by balagan_imma at 5:22 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • That's absolutely horrible. I'm so, so sorry. I feel horrible for you. I've never been in that situation so I'm really not sure how to go about telling your girls. Are they older or younger? I'm so sorry this happened to your family. You can PM me anytime if you need to talk. I can't pretend to know at all what you're going through but I'll listen and try to help you through anyway I can. Do you at least have a close family that you can lean on right now? God Bless and I'll pray for you and your children.

    Answer by Mamapunkin21809 at 5:23 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • hugs


    Answer by Christine0813 at 5:24 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

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