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What bother you

What bothers you that u wont date someone? Is it their car/truck they drive? I been talking to this guy for 2 yrs and he still want to meet and go on a date. Would you? I think he is really interested in me after its been so long.

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Asked by Anonymous at 5:27 PM on Mar. 8, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (8)
  • Give him a chance of one date. If it doesn't work, you can say no to another date. Unless you think something is "off" about him.

    Answer by CraftingMama at 5:28 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • a guy with no money
    a druggie
    a guy with no muscles
    mama's boy
    no job
    bad body odor
    bad teeth

    Answer by gwen20 at 5:32 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • I married a guy who had not car when we met. But he had a good job.

    Answer by louise2 at 5:38 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • You've been talking to him for two years and still haven't met him? Interesting.
    For me turn offs would be no job, living with parents without a job, goes out to party frequently, has no ambitions, or no drive. As well there are many other red flags to show he's a bad idea. However, if after two years you still find that he's okay to meet then go ahead. Just be smart about it, take someone with you and let another friend know where you guys are going. Just go give him a chance.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 5:44 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • I havent meet him yet because I was in a relationship for a yr and I really dont know why I havent, I think I should give him a chance, he seems to be a great guy with a great head on his shoulders.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 5:47 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • Attitude is what keeps me from dating some guys. I can't deal with self centered jerks anymore

    Answer by admckenzie at 5:52 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • give it a try...

    Answer by smiley745 at 6:24 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

  • I won't meet someone if they:

    do drugs
    no job
    doesn't spend time with his children
    doesn't take care of himself

    Answer by Onmyown2727 at 6:30 PM on Mar. 8, 2011

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