ok...10 yrs ago my x from HS contacted me when I was 26..we talked allot and I'd go visit and help with his daughter that he had full custody of. Things got out of control and we hooked up and slept together way too many times. Then 1 night when I kissed him goodbye the feelings I was getting were ones that were WAY more than I should be having. I told him I cold no longer do this. I had only been married for 2 years and I had to make it work. I know I hurt him and I felt bad but what was I to do. A few weeks after I ened it he called excitedly to tell me he had met a great girl. Instead of being jealous I was soo happy for him and a bit relieved he found someone. Then 3 yrs ago he contacted me again. We talked for about 6 months and NEVER met up except once where he tried to kiss me and I pulled away and told him I couldn't do it. My son had just turned a year and it was more than I could juggle. We remained friends and a few weeks later he told me he was moving out of state with a new girl. Again, I was happy that he was hopefully going to be happy again. I heard NOTHING from him for 2 years. However I did hear it was a VERY abusive relationship on her part. She mentally and physically was abusive and then would call the cops and he would go to jail!! Bad bad scene. This past Dec. he moved back home and immedicately contacted me. He told me he loved and missed me. I was in a REALLY bad place in my marriage and totally let him in. He had never told me those things. He would keep in constant contact with almost on a daily basis. Not only would we chat ALL the time but we would spend time togehter. The kicker? The girl he left was supossedly preggo and didn't find out until she was 5 months!!! So he felt bad and that he needed to care for her or else he would never see the baby. Therfor the plan was to move her here. GGRRRRR! He assured me we would always be friends etc. (whatever, she wouldnt even let him out of her sight). So anyway 2 weeks ago she claimed she had to terminate the baby @ 6 months! Which I find VERY hard to believe! A baby can survive at 6 months on their own. I feel like she totally lied to him and had to cover it up because she was coming up to live. This said she was still coming to live!!! Meanwhile he is still saying he loves me etc. Then all of a sudden he just stopped contacting me. Gone!! What happened?? I can't help but think it was something I did. Why start something and not finish it? I have always given him closure...any thoughts as to what happened?
Please NO Bashing! I have been in love with this guy forever and I was ready to leave....
Asked by Anonymous at 6:28 PM on Mar. 8, 2011 in Relationships
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