I wrote an email to my dad's girlfriend letting her know that my father has 2 daughters that need him (not including me since I am an adult) Since they got together he stopped paying my mother child support and told her he would pay her if she stopped the child support going after him. He lives this upper class life with this new woman and eats out all the time, buy designer clothes, and go out to events. While my mom struggles to raise a 12 and 17 year old alone. I tried to contact my dad he would not write back so I decided to let his girlfriend know. Before he met her he spent a lot of time with my sisters and called all of us often. He hasn't called my sister in a month and has not called me in 2 months. I was in the hospital for a week having my gallbladder removed in Jan. he did not even come to visit me and they live 2 hours away. I usaully bottle things up but I cannot handle this anymore I wrote everything I feel he should be doing for my sisters and that it would be nice if he would visit my boys once in awhile also. My toddler misses him a lot. My father's girlfriend does not have children at all so maybe that is part of it. She is also a very snotty woman. Did I make a mistake sending the email to her?
Answer by Mamapunkin21809 at 4:21 AM on Mar. 9, 2011
Answer by jenn4443 at 4:16 AM on Mar. 9, 2011
I don't think you made a mistake although I am not sure if he is going to understand or change just because of it. My oldest sons grandfather was involved in his life until he and his wife got divorced and he remarried someone who didn't like kids. So even though I sent him cards, invitation to birthdays, and everything he still ignored us and now 14 years later we have no contact with him. Now granted his son and I are not together so that is part of the reason, although my son still sees his grandmother.
I wish you luck and hope everything turns out for the best!
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