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WEIRD problem with friend!

Ok this is sooooo WEIRD for me...My Best Friend has always been kinda crazy and has NEVER had any luck with men probably due to her crazyness! But she's been on this turning gay trip and was asking me all these Q's like she was digging for some hints or something it was so weird and now she wants me to stay the night with her when my hubby goes out to this concert but i told her that i'll stay late but i want to go home so i can do my hubby lol i hope that droped a big hint on her! I'm not gay at all! so i'm so weirded out by this bc she's been my best friend forever and i dont want to hurt her feelings... How should i handle this?

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:47 AM on Mar. 9, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (7)
  • If she's that close of a friend, talk to her directly.

    Answer by Nonoluna at 7:51 AM on Mar. 9, 2011

  • She actually probably never had good luck with men because she's gay. She's still the same friend, I'm sure you could be honest with her and she'd be fine with it. Good luck :)

    Answer by Cosetterose at 7:52 AM on Mar. 9, 2011

  • I geuss i'm a little weired out bc she's always been lose with all her other girl friends and shes never been like that with me I love her to death no matter what i just don't like hurting peoples feelings

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 7:59 AM on Mar. 9, 2011

  • Best friends should be able to talk about anything.

    Answer by meooma at 8:00 AM on Mar. 9, 2011

  • WE DO but it's a little weird when your best friend is trying to get in your pants...

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 8:01 AM on Mar. 9, 2011

  • I kind of had that happen with a friend who wanted a "girl-on-girl" experience right before she got married. I just dodged it by blaming it on LP. "I'm pretty sure Joe would be pissed about that!"

    Answer by Mom-2-3-Girlz at 8:45 AM on Mar. 9, 2011

  • Just tell her you love her as a friend but you are a married woman and simply not gay.

    Answer by HKing01 at 10:09 AM on Mar. 9, 2011

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