I am a SHAM and it has it's benefits, I get to be home with my babies, plus I don't have to worry about having a boss above me telling me what to do and setting my schedule. But at the same time a SHAM doesn't get a day off. I work from when they wake up till I put them to sleep, Then I finish my daily chores. I also don't get the adult interaction I used to lol. For me being a SHAM works, but it's not perfect all the time it has it's ups and downs. My kids are 4,2,2 months and they are at home all the time with me. The 4 year old will start school this august. So Between dealing with the kids and my house work and errands, grocery shopping etc. There is not alot of time to find time for me and my hubby or even just me. But I make It a MUST, even if its a movie on the couch snuggled up. It is important to allow your self that time alone to unwind and get ready for the next day. But I wouldn't trade it for the world.
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