DH is probably one of the messiest men on the planet, he's not outright nasty but he definatly doesnt clean up after himself in the least. I spend all day cleaning up and as soon as he walks in the door it's like a tornado ripped through our house and I have to start all over again lol I'm 6 months preggo and taking care of a 4 yr old, I don't have the energy to clean the same thing over and over again lol.
One of my biggest issues is how he keeps our bathroom, and this has actually caused some arguments, he does things like shave his head and beard and just leave the hair wherever it falls, he's prematurely grey and so the part of his beard that he keeps he dyes and the dye gets everywhere and he just leaves it, he might miss the toilet and he'll just walk away, I don't like things on the counters and he doesnt like having to get his things from under the cabinet so we argue about that...things like that. So eventually I "gave" him the guest bathroom as his own and I've let him do with it whatever he wants...the outcome? it is now filthy, nasty...thank God we don't entertain lol...so now he's complaining about how bad his bathroom is and he wants me to clean it....I DO NOT want to...me and our daughter dont even go in there so all the mess is his alone.
My question: Being a stay at home mom, is it my "duty" to just suck it up and clean the bathroom or am I justified in making him clean up after himself??? No bashing please
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