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Has any one ever had their perenium tear during sex? adult content

this happened to me for the first time last night and i'm in serious pain and not sure what to do about it.

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Asked by jmichael313 at 11:49 PM on Mar. 9, 2011 in Relationships

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  • No, and ouch! here's a bump

    Answer by ba13ygrl1987 at 12:00 AM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • No I have not but it sounds painful.

    Answer by NickLukeandEmma at 12:03 AM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • my first time, and yes it hurt for days. i put numbing gel on it and waited for it to heal up.

    Answer by mrs.trial at 12:09 AM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • what is a good gel to use?

    Comment by jmichael313 (original poster) at 12:10 AM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • Yikes. Ughm, no I haven't. But witch hazel and cool compresses are supposed to help.


    Answer by Razelda at 12:16 AM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • Well, how badly did it tear, do you need a stitch? Honestly, I'd call the doc. Otherwise, keep it really clean and do a few sitz baths to expedite healing.

    Answer by jeanclaudia at 12:17 AM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • Good lord, what were you guys doing, lol.

    I'd go in and see your might need a stitch! At the very least, they can give you a numbing cream, I think.

    Answer by metalhealthmom at 12:23 AM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • Holy crap! Is he that big,or were you that rough!?

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 10:03 AM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • it doesn't need a stitch, its just slightly torn. we were not being rough and he's about average size so i'm really not sure what caused it. my mom said it could be that my skin may be thinning. however, if it still hurts tomorow definitly goin to the dr.

    Comment by jmichael313 (original poster) at 10:11 AM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • Lube it up a little more too next time!! Geesh, sounds like you had fun, but dang...

    Answer by MrsJStearns at 10:12 AM on Mar. 10, 2011

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