and i plan on leaving him but i know if i tell him that i am leaving, he will take away my car keys,laptop,and cell phone because he does not want me to leave. when the time comes for me to leave, do i tell him i am leaving before hand or do i leave while he is at work so he does not mess up my plan?? i know if he makes me miss work(by taking my car keys) it might get me fired. ps........ he CLAIMS to love me a lot and has bought me like 60 thousand $$ worth of gifts just to make it up to me because he said he just made mistakes... advice please??? he has done a lot for me and i don't want to be ungrateful by leaving without saying goodbye but i know i deserve a man who will be faithful to me. life is too short.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:00 AM on Mar. 10, 2011 in Relationships
No, I wouldn't say one word. I would leave while he's at work. He lost the dignity of an actual goodbye when he couldn't keep it in his pants in my opinion.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 4:03 AM on Mar. 10, 2011
Answer by -AJ at 4:20 AM on Mar. 10, 2011
Answer by shivasgirl at 4:44 AM on Mar. 10, 2011
Definitely leave while he's at work, regardless of what he's bought you, you owe him nothing and you need what you have to survive. That's the least he could have given to you after what he did and if you stayed, he'd continue to do it and chances are you'd never be able to forgive or get past what he did! Best of luck!
Answer by anichols1 at 5:33 AM on Mar. 10, 2011
Answer by tootoobusy at 6:15 AM on Mar. 10, 2011
Answer by Ashes0813 at 7:27 AM on Mar. 10, 2011
Sense you know he will try to stop you and you do not want him to mess it up. Do it while he is at work. It is his fault you actually are leaving. Do not feel sorry for his cheeting ass.
Answer by louise2 at 5:45 AM on Mar. 10, 2011
Answer by layh41407 at 6:22 AM on Mar. 10, 2011
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Answer by jodi205 at 7:57 AM on Mar. 10, 2011
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