Ok so the last six months of my marriage has been rough. My husband turned to an online chat software where he met someone and who he "married" online. He just left for boot camp this week and so I went on there on my own avatar and talked to her. Turns out he has been lying to me and to her this entire time. He told her that I had abandoned him and my kids (not true), she wouldn't fully tell me the truth on weather they had any plans to meet in person but he had told her about our kids, she knew when he was graduating from boot camp and a lot of other things that I don't think you should tell someone you only know online. I don't know what to do here. I love him. Even after all of this crap I still love him. Before he left I told him that I wanted four months when he gets back with no internet or phones or anything because I want to work on us. Am I doing the right thing here? I have been depressed for a while and was neglecting certain things in our marriage due to that. I know that I pushed him to this point and I am hoping that I can bring us back from it, but god I am hurt right now. And the killer thing is that I can't even talk to him about it until July probably. I just wanted to see if anyone else has gone through something similar or if anyone has any advice for me. Thanks in advance and if nothing else thanks for reading my vent.
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