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Does your DH or SO give u closure and emotional support?

Say ur upset does he try talking to u? When he sees u crying does he try to comfort u? Do u have to ask him to hold u? Or does he ignore u, says why u cryn? Is it ok for a man not to do these things? Could u be able to deal with it???

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Asked by spanisheyes552 at 12:56 PM on Mar. 10, 2011 in Relationships

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  • i'm not a real emotional person but when i do cry my dh comforts me

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 12:58 PM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • he didn't use to
    i left and he realized why
    we are back together and he has changed
    he is now a support system
    he used to be a cold hearted man

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:59 PM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • not really. Although if I am really having a day he does at least acknowledge that he notices. It takes alot of him to be emotionally supportive

    Answer by 2boysnaprincess at 1:15 PM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • He usually tries to comfort me if I'm upset.

    Answer by HKing01 at 1:38 PM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • Yes in fact I almost think his need for closure and for us to be on the same page is greater than mine

    Answer by kayslay at 1:40 PM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • He always comforts me.

    Answer by cecyh9 at 1:47 PM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • Mine does not comfort me. It's hurtful, but I went into my relationship knowing he's not as emotional as I am, and I will have to be very specific about my emotional needs. It sucks to be upset and not have that automatic comfort, but it's not the end all be all to our relationship.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:03 PM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • Nope ... He says I am not responsible for your feelings

    Answer by pammomof9 at 4:03 PM on Mar. 10, 2011

  • My ex was like this. Why we broke up. He was so emotionally unavailable and he just couldn't give me what I needed.

    Answer by iluvmybabe at 4:17 PM on Mar. 10, 2011

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