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Question about post pregnancy sex

its been 8 weeks sincei had my little on.. i had an episiotomy (not sure how to spell) and having intercourse is still uncomforable.. anyone ever had thi sproblem if so what did yall do to help..

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datgurlmeggy

Asked by datgurlmeggy at 4:56 PM on Mar. 10, 2011 in General Parenting

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  • give your body more time to heal- 8 weeks isn't very long for all those muscle layers to heal, there will still be some swelling in there.
    Warm bath to relax, plenty of gentle foreplay, lube, position - u might find you on top is better as you can control direction and pace, also sex doesn't have to be penetration,there are plenty other ways to orgasm without needing the in-out-in-out of intercourse, have fun and use it as time to explore other methods
    myheartx4

    Answer by myheartx4 at 5:00 PM on Mar. 10, 2011

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