My dh lies to me about the most pety things. He has been faithful but the lies just don't seem to stop flowing. We have been together for 3.5 years and these little white lies really really hurt. He has said so many mean things and there just has been so much pain. I kicked him out and now I am seeing how hard it is to be a single mother. And everytime I cry my dd cries. It is a mess. Should I get back with him, he swears he will change this time, which I know is a lie. But I need the help and I am supose to start school in june. But i cant if i do not have help.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:02 PM on Mar. 10, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by autbot at 10:04 PM on Mar. 10, 2011
Answer by msboerschinger at 10:19 PM on Mar. 10, 2011
DONT TAKE HIM BACK YOUR TEACHING YOUR CHILD THATS HOW A MAN WILL TREAT YOU WHEN HE LOVES YOU AND THEN WHEN YOUR CHILD GETS OLDER AND START DATING HOPEFULLY NOT BUT IF SO THEY WONT KNOW WHATS THE MEANING OF THE WORD LOVE BECAUSE THEY HAVE SEEN YOU IN DADDY TOGETHER SHOWING THE SO CALLED WORD LOVE WHICH IS NOT LOVE BUT HUN LISTEN I'M A SINGLE MOM OF A 4YR OLD AND A 2YR OLD I THOUGHT IT WAS HARD TOO ONLY WHEN I WAS IN THE WORLD DOING STUFF I DIDN'T HAVE NO RIGHT DOING UNTILL I GAVE MY LIFE TO THE LORD SO HUN ITS NOT GOING TO BE HARD UNLESS YOU MAKE IT HARD THERE WILL BE MANY CRYING DAYS BUT BABY TRUST ME ITS WORTH IT NOT TO SEE YOUR CHILDREN SEE YOU GOING THROUGH THE MESS BABY DADDY TAKING YOU THROUGH I HAD TO LEARN THE HARD WAY AS WELL BABY DADDY GETTING ME KICKED OUT MY HOUSE FOR BRINGING A SHOT GUN INTO MY HOUSE ETC I GOT SAVED IN 2009 I TELL YOU WHAT JOY/PEACE ME AND MY BABIES HAVE SO TRUST ME ITS WORTH BEING A SINGLEMOM
Answer by My2ButterFlys at 12:07 AM on Mar. 11, 2011
Answer by rkoloms at 10:22 PM on Mar. 10, 2011
I really can't stand liars. I believe I have the right to say that, because I haven't told a lie in I don't know how long. I don't do things or put myself in a situation where I have to tell a lie. And! I'm not into living a politically correct lifestyle. That being said... I understand you need the help, but putting up with lies period isn't going to help in the long run. You'll find yourself re-visiting (mentally) what he has lied about and what he maybe lying about in the present. You said it yourself, he maybe lying about changing. I don't see you becoming a wholehearted success in both your personal and career-oriented life, if you can't seem to deal with a situation where you're second guessing your decisions. He's a liar and there's nowhere around it. He's going to have to become self-aware of just how much he is effecting your life... on his own... out of your life.
Answer by LanaisSky96 at 10:24 PM on Mar. 10, 2011
Answer by minki111 at 10:40 PM on Mar. 10, 2011
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Answer by kkbird at 12:56 AM on Mar. 11, 2011
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Answer by rosiemendo at 8:05 AM on Mar. 11, 2011