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How clean do you need to be... adult content

...to let your hubby go down on you? I love it, but I have to shower first. Anyone else do this?

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heat631

Asked by heat631 at 1:14 PM on Mar. 11, 2011 in Relationships

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  • agreed, i have to shower first. i wont let him do it otherwise
    tnm786

    Answer by tnm786 at 1:14 PM on Mar. 11, 2011

  • I generally keep myself pretty clean, shower daily, so it's not an issue. If I went 3 days without bathing, they yeah I might not want him to!
    missanc

    Answer by missanc at 1:15 PM on Mar. 11, 2011

  • I know I'm clean down there but I just feel fresher if I'm able to take a shower first, shave any stray hairs, just neaten up lol....he likes to be spontaneous though so....whatever lol....as long as he's going down I'm a happy woman lol
    Lucky209

    Answer by Lucky209 at 1:15 PM on Mar. 11, 2011

  • lol i shower daily also but i still have to shower beforehand. i have to feel shower-fresh before i let him go down.
    tnm786

    Answer by tnm786 at 1:17 PM on Mar. 11, 2011

  • Whew! I thought it was just me. It can slow down the spontenaety, but sometimes him waiting on me can help the build up! I don't always shower daily (sometimes every other day) but even if I shower in the morning and he comes home for some "afternoon delight", I still gotta hop in the shower.
    heat631

    Comment by heat631 (original poster) at 1:26 PM on Mar. 11, 2011

  • Yes

    proudmommy42008

    Answer by proudmommy42008 at 1:29 PM on Mar. 11, 2011

  • Shower or the like. I would be too self conscious and it would not be pleasurable for either one of us.
    Philly247

    Answer by Philly247 at 1:33 PM on Mar. 11, 2011

  • Does he shower before you go down on him?
    bcauseimthemom

    Answer by bcauseimthemom at 1:45 PM on Mar. 11, 2011

  • No, but I don't ask him to and it doesn't bother me. I'm just self-conscious about myself. He actually says he'd like it "natural" but I just can't bring myself to it. Does your husband shower first?
    heat631

    Comment by heat631 (original poster) at 1:46 PM on Mar. 11, 2011

  • Does he shower before you go down on him?

    No, but he does shower daily. I don't really shower first for him, i shower first for myself. It's a personal preference really. I don't feel comfortable & will take longer if i worry about not being super clean down there.
    tnm786

    Answer by tnm786 at 1:47 PM on Mar. 11, 2011

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