Okay, my husband had an affair about three years ago. I am Christian and really wanted to keep our family together. I forgave him and things are great now. Better than before actually. The "other woman" lives in the same town we do and I bump into her from time to time. Usually, I get upset afterward--never to her--to myself but seeing her tonight I felt nothing. It felt great. Now I have this urge to get it off my chest and tell her I forgive her. I don't hate her anymore. Like I've carried this rock around in my heart and it isn't there anymore.
Is this a bad idea? If you were the "other woman", would you want to hear something like this?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:40 PM on Mar. 11, 2011 in Relationships
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