Ever seen the show? well this is the real life situation, only quite a bit more extreme. My SO and I have a son (2.5 years old). HE made the choice to buy a dog (a mutt yet) around the time our son was between 6 and 8 months old. Keep in mind here that I made it SUPER clear from the very first mention (just a couple weeks after we became intimate) of him wanting a dog that I hate them and NEVER wanted to EVER live with one of those things, and also that that was a HUMONGOUS deal breaker for me (meaning I could never be with a person who had one, EVER!!!!!). SO.....now here it is much later with much strife in the past and we have not had sex but once since the thing came here (shortly after, and I hate that I went through with it!!!!!!) . I can get off when I feel the need and have many times although......I have an extremely high sex drive. But.....I cannot bring myself to have sex with someone who was so incredibly disrespectful to me and basically threw a big ol' f.u and I don't care about ur feelings at me by his actions and I will NEVER forgive him EVER. The current problem is that I want another baby and I know he does too BUT......I will never have sex with him ever again unless he gets rid of the thing and FOREVER and I will need proof that it is truly gone 4ever and also a huge promise that I will not ever have to hear any crap about it l8r.I already hear crap every time I complain about it which I do VERY often and I have every right to and he just says "I love my dog so much"! Waa, waa, grow up, I could not stop him from getting IT only voice my opinion, otherwise I'd be the controlling bitch! I highly doubt that he will get rid of it now but I need to know something soon, He says all the time how he LOVES me sooooo much but it's bullshit. I demand love AND respect from any intimate partner of mine! I love him but I am so deeply hurt by his actions, there is only one way to rectify it. There is only one way, and I think it is coming time to lay it out (although I already have a few times, but he was drinking and is an alcoholic) but he NEVER remembers anything I say and I recall every word of every single convo. oh, he also just got out of rehab a few weeks ago. I know this is long but please give ur best attempt at advice. Thank you, thank you! so much!!!Answer Question
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