My dh told me tonight that it was my fault that he doesn't have.a relationship with his mother. His mother doesn't come around at all or calls to to see how grandkids are doing. I don't know what to think i have mixed feelings and emotions im crying i guess its because im 22 weeks pregnant and emotional i just couldn't believe he said that. When i waspregnant with my dd i fell down the stairs trying to climb a gate that she put up so that her fucken dogs wouldn't pee and poop out of my bedroom door or in my bathroom because she refused to keep them outdoors. When my daughter was born and began to crawl she still refused to leave the dogs outside so that my daughter could crawl so i was in my room most of the time. He blames me when shes never come around he tells me that I should be taking the kids to her and don't take the kids over to her place and that why should she come over here.
Answer by TiffanieK at 3:42 AM on Mar. 12, 2011
Answer by doctormom2011 at 4:01 AM on Mar. 12, 2011
I don't understand where you're at fault... I'd hope you'd express your dislike with the dogs in the house during those times. I'm glad you and your DD are ok after that nasty fall during the pregnancy. In my opinion, it takes some willingness from both sides, when it comes to family visits. Why can't his mother come and spend time with the kids? Have a sit-down with your MIL and husband and voice how you feel. It's very important to keep things civilize for the grandkids sake.
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