Someone asked a question yesterday about whether our pregnancies were planned or unplanned, but two of mine I think fell into the "gray area".
With my first, I had fertility issues so she was extra super planned.
With my second, I did not want to go through the nightmare of fertility issues that I experienced with my first, and we planned to foster to adopt. When we got our license, I found out I was pregnant. So yes, I definitely wanted a child, desperately, but I didn't think it would happen biologically. Planned or unplanned? Which would it be?
With my third, we wanted more children and had planned to start TTC when our baby was out of diapers, but ended up conceiving in the potty training process. I guess that makes her a month or two ahead of the "plan", but does that make her unplanned?
Feel free to give your honest opinions, because, honestly, it doesn't matter now! LMAO! I wanted my children and have them whether they fit the definition of planned or not, but I'm curious about what everyone's take would be?
Answer by metalhealthmom at 11:10 AM on Mar. 12, 2011
Answer by coala at 9:55 AM on Mar. 12, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 10:03 AM on Mar. 12, 2011
Answer by luvschocolate at 5:10 PM on Mar. 12, 2011
Next question overall
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