I don't think it will be your looks that determine whether he stays home with you or goes out with the guys. It will more likely be how you treat him during the day. If he's home, tell him how much you love having him at home. If he picks up his socks, tell him how much you appreciate his picking up his socks. Whatever he does, you compliment it and show appreciation. The main reason guys go out with other guys is because there they get their egos fed, which sad to say, most wives neglect to do. If he goes out somewhere during the day or if he's working today, let him know how much you missed him while he was gone and how you are looking forward to his coming home. He knows how you look. What he wants to know is that you think he is the most special man on the planet to you and that you crave his company and appreciate his every act of fulfilling that pleasure.
at 11:41 AM on Mar. 12, 2011