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What would you do if a family member slept with someone you slept with?

At first I thought it didn't affect me but today I know that i am so upset i want to him both of them. would u say something to either party?

 
dubewife

Asked by dubewife at 5:14 PM on Mar. 12, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (16)
  • It all depends, if my sister slept with my ex while I still wasn't over him I'd be pissed and I'd tell her off because she's my sister and would have known that I still had feelings for him. However if I no longer have those kinds of feelings towards a guy I wouldn't care if someone in my family or a friend slept with him because I don't think of him that way anymore.
    momof2inCT2007

    Answer by momof2inCT2007 at 6:10 PM on Mar. 12, 2011

  • Nothing. Your relationship with that person was over. You can't and don't control what other people do.
    meooma

    Answer by meooma at 5:16 PM on Mar. 12, 2011

  • I'd be glad I wasn't the one getting sloppy seconds.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:51 PM on Mar. 12, 2011

  • I'd probably laugh ... cause it's kinda gross and kinda funny ya know?!
    kaylan010

    Answer by kaylan010 at 5:16 PM on Mar. 12, 2011

  • Unless you still have a relationship with this person why would you care?? what if they sleep with you they are banned to do it with anyone else????
    older

    Answer by older at 5:17 PM on Mar. 12, 2011

  • depeds on who and who
    letstalk747

    Answer by letstalk747 at 5:25 PM on Mar. 12, 2011

  • No I dont really think Id care.
    gemgem

    Answer by gemgem at 5:15 PM on Mar. 12, 2011

  • It's already happened... And I didn't care. Why would I? It's not like they slept with my husband or child...
    SabrinaMBowen

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 5:16 PM on Mar. 12, 2011

  • I have been in this situation, and I was devestated. To make a long story short, he cheated on me with my own cousin, I was highly pissed, and upset. Unless you had a relationship with this person who your family member slept with, and not just casual sex with him, then I would brush it off, because it's kinda gross, and I wouldn't associate myself with that douche anymore.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:21 PM on Mar. 12, 2011

  • I would care but I wouldn't let them know that.
    Rachel24517

    Answer by Rachel24517 at 5:26 PM on Mar. 12, 2011