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Nosey Boyfriend!

Everytime I am on cafemom my boyfriend tries to peep to see what I'm reading or posting. It's really annoying, because when I tell him to go away he thinks I am talking to someone or talking about him. I don't want him reading stuff because I feel that its a women's confidentiality thing, like men should just stay away from our woman time on here lol!! But seriously, is your man as intrigued by cafe mom? lol. Now I have to wait until he is gone to get on here or wait until he is occupied with something else.


Asked by kayaiden8907 at 10:58 PM on Mar. 12, 2011 in Pregnancy

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  • Sometimes my hubby is reading over and I really don't mind, but today I posted about him and his friends trashing my house and me having to clean it up, I don't hide anything from him, but if I want to vent and not blow up on him I will post here and I didn't want him to read that cuz i don't want him thinking I am talking crap...But I tell him some of the stuff and we laugh! When I get on cafemom he goes "OMG(actually mimicking me) Cafemom again!!!!" I think he just gets jealous cuz my "free-time" I spend it on its my fault actually

    Answer by MOM2DYLnHAYLEE at 1:00 AM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • No, my Hubby and I laugh at some of the posts.. Even when he's not home and we're talking over the computer I'll copy and paste posts to him to give him a laugh,lol.. We don't hide anything from each other.. No reason to, there's nothing confidential about cafemom,lol... IMO anyway.

    Answer by MrsLeftlane at 11:01 PM on Mar. 12, 2011

  • He could care less but when he hears my keys going mad on the laptop, he just says "Cafesmut again?" LOL

    Answer by Jademom07 at 11:03 PM on Mar. 12, 2011

  • I read this stuff to my hubby all the time... he just laughs. I don't hide stuff from him... he can get on here if he wants to, I don't care.


    Answer by Crafty26 at 11:06 PM on Mar. 12, 2011

  • Mine thinks he will catch a period if he is in the same room and i'm on the sight, but my mother lives with me and she always looks at what i am doing. Thats anoying bc I am talking about private things in my life sometimes.

    Answer by Kimkh at 11:09 PM on Mar. 12, 2011

  • No.. he could really care less but if I find something I think is funny or like on here I will show or tell him

    Answer by mommato2boys79 at 11:12 PM on Mar. 12, 2011

  • Just realized I put this under pregnancy lol Sorry didn't mean to do that. But sometimes I like to vent about him on here and it's hard when he is being nosey lol

    Comment by kayaiden8907 (original poster) at 11:24 PM on Mar. 12, 2011

  • lol ya, my fiance always asks what question Im answering....

    Answer by katieandchris01 at 11:26 PM on Mar. 12, 2011

  • Sounds like some of your guys have jealousy or control issues.  Why would anyone put up with that?  My husband couldn't care less what I do online.


    Answer by CookieMom108 at 11:29 PM on Mar. 12, 2011

  • He doesn't do it in a mean way, he just peeps but if I tell him to go away he gets upset cause he doesn't understand why I don't want him to see if I am just talking to other women, I do it because I have friends and we talk about their lives and I want to be a good friend and keep it confidential.

    Comment by kayaiden8907 (original poster) at 11:32 PM on Mar. 12, 2011