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are you truley happy? did something change to make you happy?

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minki111

Asked by minki111 at 3:35 AM on Mar. 13, 2011 in Relationships

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  • yeah we're happy now...we used to have fights and problems all the time before we got married...but afterwards, we started getting along a little better. we love each other more than nething in the world. and i wouldnt wana be without him
    MommyRach0810

    Answer by MommyRach0810 at 4:34 AM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • My fiance and I have a wonderful relationship. We have been together 3 years, and we dont fight, we conversate. we sit and we talk out our problems and we dont yell when there is an issue. we take the time to hear both sides and try to come to a compromise. the best way for us to start a discussion is with a compliment!
    kayceeisit

    Answer by kayceeisit at 4:52 AM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • I can honestly say yes I am very...... Happy! I love being married.
    Hesmynavyman

    Answer by Hesmynavyman at 5:08 AM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • nope not completly happy. im hoping to get there one day. we are still working out some issues.
    shellychivell

    Answer by shellychivell at 5:40 AM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • i'm not happy. i am about to end a relationship with my fiancĂ©e. we have been engaged for a year and a half but i need my own independence. independent women tend to not do as well in relationships. the world has changed, women are becoming more liberated and no longer need a man to take care of them. Women used to date/marry older men because they felt that they could take care of them. but now many women are soughting after younger men because women can take after themselves. women who "stand by their men no matter what" usually have weak personalities and are afraid to be alone.
    TiffanieK

    Answer by TiffanieK at 5:56 AM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • I think all relationships will go through good and bad times, right now i guess its some of the bad times, would i leave him over the way i feel? no, it is just a period we are having and i have had some medical things happen to me and i go through times where i do feel unloved and like he doesn't want me. I know how we can fix it but it will take a little longer too.
    jenn4443

    Answer by jenn4443 at 8:46 AM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • Yes we are very happy. I think we are well matched and have little conflict anymore. It is a nice place to be in. Don't get me wrong he still gets on my nerves sometimes, but nothing serious that causes fights or anything.
    Bubbie0809

    Answer by Bubbie0809 at 8:56 AM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • WOW I CAN SAY I AM TRUELY HAPPY WITH MY SPOUSE BUT WE DO BUMP HEADS ALOT BUT I WOULD WANT TO BE WITH NO ONE ELSE BUT HIM.
    ryahzMommy

    Answer by ryahzMommy at 9:00 AM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • I believe I can honestly say that I am truly happy. We've been married for going on 14 years (together for over 17) and we've been through the happy times and not-so-happy times, but we are committed and love each other and can't imagine even wanting to be apart.
    AllAboutKeeley

    Answer by AllAboutKeeley at 9:41 AM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • We are extmely happy. Always have been. Never fight, bicker or have petty arguments.
    vbruno

    Answer by vbruno at 11:29 AM on Mar. 13, 2011

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