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How many is to many?

Things are getting kinda serious between me and a friend. We I
talked about how many people we've been with. I've only slept with one I've given oral to two. But he's been with 4 is that a lot? Should I wait a little longer?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 12:47 PM on Mar. 13, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Sorry for all the typos I'm on my phone lol
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 12:48 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • 4 really isn't a lot. i've been with 4 different guys and i was in a relationship with each one. i'm 22
    momofone725

    Answer by momofone725 at 12:49 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • I would say a lot depends on your ages... 4 at 35 is different than 4 at 17
    peanutsmommy1

    Answer by peanutsmommy1 at 12:49 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • I have to agree w/peanutsmommy1.
    PatriciaofMN

    Answer by PatriciaofMN at 12:50 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • I have to agree w/peanutsmommy1.
    PatriciaofMN

    Answer by PatriciaofMN at 12:51 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • Haha 4 ... if my hubby had only been with 4 I wouldn't have married him.
    kaylan010

    Answer by kaylan010 at 12:52 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • If he's admitting to 4 then the truth is probably more like 8 or 12 or he's only been with one or two really. "allot" depends on your own sense of "morality"
    vbruno

    Answer by vbruno at 12:52 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • Four is not a lot. Double that... triple that... that might be a lot. But four, no.
    AdensMama0308

    Answer by AdensMama0308 at 12:54 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • I chuckle every time I hear a person talk about their or someone else's number of sex partners. I feel if a person has common enough sense to practice safe sex, then I don't care how many sex partners he or she has had. That's just me. Everyone's entitled to their own preference within the dating world.

    LanaisSky96

    Answer by LanaisSky96 at 1:01 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • There is no perfect number or perfect answer too many people? Sometimes relationships do not work out and people part or maybe he just dated them its all working his way up to where he is now and like a pp said if safe sex is practiced its okay.

    pinkdragon36

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 1:17 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

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