Well my son who says he doesnt want kids has a gf and he called me today asking for a pregnancy test. I had to really get him to tell me it was for his gf and I asked to talk to her. He wouldnt let me. Anyway finally he did and I explained I was willing to get the test for her, and then take her to the doctor if she needs a ride etc. She seemed pretty greatful, she already has a little boy and is a single mom.
My son has pretty much always enjoyed being single and having different gf's all the time. I told him Id be there in an hour with the tests and to meet her. I got there and he and two of his friends (I know them both well they grew up at my house basically lol) were waiting outside and my son said she wasnt home and to take him to his place to get some clothes. I said wth? He had gotten into an argument with her and said it probably wasnt even his. I talked to him and he knows it is his baby and I told him under no circumstances is he walking away from his responsibility & that I planned to make sure the gf knew regardless she can come to me for whatever she needs. Basically either way hes on the hook & will be involved because I will be.
He is supposed to be calling me in a few to come over because she will be home by then. She is a little demanding lol. I heard her tell my son any money he gets from me he should get used to using on diapers and such. He was huffing & puffing but I told him she was pretty much right. So am I handling this alright? I love my son, but I am not going to get this girl feel like shes not accepted into our family.
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