making her mommy lil helper. have her help with feeding, diapers changing, bathing, and general care and play with baby. let her know how proud you are of her. make sure she comes to visit you and baby before you leave the hospital. as long as she feels she is playing an important role in the babies life, you will have no problems (maybe a few) with her adjusting to new life with baby. having her read to the baby helps too ive heard. she gets better at reading and baby gets to reconize her voice, which is great when baby gets older and starts to smile at her, she will love that!
at 5:03 PM on Mar. 13, 2011