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How do I get more romance in my relationship?

My boyfriend and I will be togther for 3 year May 12th and the romance aint there like it use to be i really love him and i want to stay with him but i also want some romance in our relationship

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jessalyns_momma

Asked by jessalyns_momma at 7:04 PM on Mar. 13, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (10)
  • have you asked him?
    peanutsmommy1

    Answer by peanutsmommy1 at 7:04 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • asked him what??
    jessalyns_momma

    Comment by jessalyns_momma (original poster) at 7:07 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • Talk to him about it, or do something and take the inititive. Put on sexy things for him. Give massages. Do date nights. You cant just go without and feel neglected. Do something or say something, but in a nice way. How you talk to him about it will effect how he takes your suggestions. Men tend to take you asking for romance as being criticized
    vbruno

    Answer by vbruno at 7:07 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • Make suggestions or just inject some romance into your lives on your own....you could bring a picnic to his job on his lunch hour or make hiim a romantic dinner....hopefully he'll take the hint and start doing romantic things for you as well. Good luck mama
    Lucky209

    Answer by Lucky209 at 7:15 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • Me and my husband have us time 2 times a week,he and I dress up put the kids to bed have a few drinks and play yahtzee,rummy or ps3...lol.and we just talk everything but about the kids,we call it mommy and daddy time.it does keep our marriage alive been together 9 years.
    mommywifey28

    Answer by mommywifey28 at 7:16 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • asked him to be more romantic....
    peanutsmommy1

    Answer by peanutsmommy1 at 7:20 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • i dont want to seem to foward
    jessalyns_momma

    Comment by jessalyns_momma (original poster) at 7:25 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • Talk it over with him and come up with a plan like mommywifey suggested. You can make it fun to come up with ideas together and discuss what you both think would work for you.
    elizabr

    Answer by elizabr at 7:30 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • Try new things
    smiley745

    Answer by smiley745 at 8:20 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

  • Girl you're fighting for your relationship - get forward :) it's ok :)
    AAAMama

    Answer by AAAMama at 8:28 PM on Mar. 13, 2011

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