My husband and I have four children. Two of his own, and my two. His children live up North, we live in the South. We live 14 hours away from his kids.
Dh wants to move up to be close to his children. But I dont. There really is nothing up there for me. Sure I was raised in the state his kids live in, and I have tons of friends up there, including my own brother, but still I love it where we live.
I told him we could consider moving in a few years. Am I making him choose between us and his children? I feel bad, but ALL my family is here, his mom is here, and his kids are there.... I dont know, I feel bad, but not really.
I also feel that if we move close to his kids, he will put my kids on the back burner, he already does when his two come here... it makes me feel really bad.
He reads books to his daughters, but for my children, he's "too tired". Ughh I dont know.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:19 AM on Mar. 14, 2011 in General Parenting
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