I am asking because I have began chatting with an ex, to be honest he was my first and I was his. We are just talking, he knows I am married and I know he is in a relationship. Just a re-connection of sorts as friends and catching up, so don't judge please. But I was surprised to know that he holds a fondness for me 20 years after the fact, like I was unforgettable to him. I had no idea. It was just so very nice to hear and no it does not mean he is trying to get something from me. It was just some real honest conversation. He remembered more about us going on than I would have expected, even more than me in regards to what I was wearing among other things. I was just very pleasantly surprised. I can't say he was the love of my life, but I can say maybe back then when we were young and dumb we may not have given it a fair chance to see where else it could have gone. But it partially made us who we are now and it gives me a new found appreciation for him and makes me think if I were ever in a bind I could count on him. Surprising that you can find friends where you did not think they still existed after all these years.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:10 PM on Mar. 14, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by gemgem at 12:13 PM on Mar. 14, 2011
I have an EX and we are the same way. We had a bad break up and at the time I thought he was the one I would be with forever. The break up was very hard on me and at times I would think of him. We talked off and on over many years although nothing major. Then about 5 years ago we had a long conversation about what happened between us and I was also surprised to find that he still thought of me and that I was not crazy.
It is always a nice thing to realize that you have a friend.
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