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S/o - step son is embarressed?

if the step son is 15 and she is only 27 how old is the husband/father? Who thought that would be appropriate, what kind of an example is that for the son of finding someone appropriate to share a life with. Of course the kids is embaressed, she probably looks like his girlfriend and not his mother.


Asked by Anonymous at 1:30 PM on Mar. 14, 2011 in General Parenting

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Answers (16)
  • I really do not see the big deal if the husband is older, he may be 10 yrs older. i am 38 and have a 16 yr old. sometimes people find someone they love that is alot older or younger then the other. Its not like she is 19, i havent read the other question yet but i did see it.

    Answer by jenn4443 at 1:36 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • Are you talking about the STEP MOM being 27? Truthfully it does not matter if the step son is upset/embarrassed.


    Answer by louise2 at 1:39 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • LOL

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:33 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • My father is with someone 22 years younger than himself and he is extremely happy. My fil is married to someone at least 20 years younger and I assume he's happy. My mil is married to someone about 15 years younger and they are happy. My dh was a little put off about his stepdad's age when he was a teen but it makes no difference now.

    You love who you love.

    Answer by Nonoluna at 1:34 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • The father could be 35..with a 27 yr old so that is not too bad. Are you sure he is embarrassed or is he just upset about his dad being with anyone?

    Answer by ria7 at 1:34 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • My stepson was 12 years younger than me, my ex was 13 years older than me. Was it weird? Yes. Was he embarrassed? No. He actually liked that I enjoyed a lot of the same things he did - the same music, activities, etc. I was married to my ex for 12 years. I would never recommend being with someone with that much of an age difference but it never embarrassed my stepson.

    Answer by missanc at 1:34 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • This a good time to point out what not to do.

    Don't have sex tell ready to be a father.

    Answer by gammie at 1:35 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • My friend is 19 & her step son is 17, It don't bother me at all... love is love

    Answer by via86 at 2:26 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • in his 30's

    Answer by smiley745 at 2:27 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • the father could be 33 or 40 and it's still not bad. she is legal and an adult. i see nothing wrong with that. when i was 21 i dated a 31 year old. i think you are just jealous of her youthful look and its rubbing off onto the 15yo. he's probably more embaressed by your reaction than his fathers.

    Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 2:34 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

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