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How do i legally become a godparent in NY?

my friend has god-children and he wants to know how to legally become their god-father

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brielleysmelly

Asked by brielleysmelly at 4:11 PM on Mar. 14, 2011 in General Parenting

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  • God parent is a religious designation not a legal one. It means that that person is responsible for the moral and spiritual upbringing of the child.
    tootoobusy

    Answer by tootoobusy at 4:13 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • You become a godparent by being selected by the parents to serve in that capacity. It has to do with religious education.

    Godparents have no legal rights. If he's asking about guardian, again, that's up to the PARENTS.
    gdiamante

    Answer by gdiamante at 4:14 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • If you are wondering how you would become the legal guardian in case of tragedy, then that would be done through a will to the best of my knowledge.
    Nonoluna

    Answer by Nonoluna at 4:15 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • If you mean officially, not legally, you do it through the church that the child's family belongs to, typically during a baptism ceremony.

    I know some people choose god parents based on who they would want to get their children should they pass away. If this is what you are referring to, it would need to be done through courts.
    Krysta622

    Answer by Krysta622 at 5:30 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • my friend was made the godfather of the kids but has nothing in writing. the parents of the kids are not taking care of them like they should so he wants to make sure that if the kids get taken away that they are given to him.
    brielleysmelly

    Comment by brielleysmelly (original poster) at 5:45 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • There isn't anything in writing, legally, when you become a godparent, other then a baptism certificate. He needs to ask the parents to legally name him as guardian should something happen to them. It's up to the parents.
    Krysta622

    Answer by Krysta622 at 6:29 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • A "godfather" is not a legal co-parenting position. If the children are removed he will have to petition the court to get them. Unfortunately blood relatives come first and then friends.
    matthewscandi

    Answer by matthewscandi at 6:37 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • As others have said, godparent is nothing legal. it is more of an honor given by the parents at a baptism/christening. Being a guardian is a legal designation but it has to be given through a legal document or the courts.
    elizabr

    Answer by elizabr at 7:27 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • Being a godparent is NOT a legal thing, it is a religious thing. A godparent has NO RIGHTS. Your friend can TRY and petition the courts for custody but that doesn't mean he will get it just because he is a godparent.
    tyfry7496

    Answer by tyfry7496 at 12:55 AM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • all you do is put in your will who you want the children to o to!Plus as a Catholic, the Pope is the one to acknowledge Godparents, and all of my kids are set in stone inour wills thru the Arch Dioscies
    JoLee12345

    Answer by JoLee12345 at 10:45 AM on Mar. 15, 2011

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