As some of you who answered my "Brown Sugar" question know I was trying to make Zesty BBQ chicken in the crockpot for dinner tonight...come to find out we don't even have any damn chicken lol...I thought we did, but no....
So anyways DH called from work and I let him know what happened (he was looking forward to it) I told him how sorry I was, that I felt really bad about it because I know he was looking forward to it (I couldnt get the chicken myself because we only have the one car and he has it) So before I'm able to tell him that I will make fried talapia instead (his favorite) he says to me "That's okay, I'm used to being dissapointed when it comes to you and cooking"
Maybe I'm being extra sensitive (I AM prego) I don't know but that REALLY hurt my feelings...like brought tears to my eyes!....I told him when we FIRST started dating that I didnt really know how to cook...I was a total tomboy growing up and didnt have the patience to try and learn....DH wanted me to be a SAHM and so I've been trying REALLY hard to cook the things I AM good at making and trying to make new things at least once a week so he doesnt get bored....granted some of the things I've made didnt come out all that great but I AM trying...
When he says something like that it's like...fuck what the hell am I even trying for? he KNEW I couldnt cook! Why don't I get credit for trying???
Maybe I'm being too sensitive, I don't know but that hurt my feelings....I'm sad now lol
Answer by NannyB. at 5:40 PM on Mar. 14, 2011
Answer by tnm786 at 5:21 PM on Mar. 14, 2011
Answer by butterflyblue19 at 5:24 PM on Mar. 14, 2011
Answer by dollhead78 at 6:13 PM on Mar. 14, 2011
If he was not joking then he is being mean. It takes time to learn to cook. I was also a tomboy, but I learn So keep up the good work. You can learn to cook for your new baby.
Answer by HomeAlone45 at 10:33 PM on Mar. 14, 2011
Answer by Liz4Life at 12:16 AM on Mar. 17, 2011