Well my husband wants to end things with us, but he has done this before and we've been off and on for almost 8 years. So why does he do this? His mom and dad had a bad marriage but I think that he feels like ours is the same in some way. How do I get him to try to beat his problems, I don't want to separate I want us to work. Should I just give up or should I fight with everything that I have? I love him very much and he is the only guy that I've ever wanted to be with. He says that its just him and that he doesn't want to be with anyone right now, he doesn't want to be in any relationship. Is he afraid? Am I scaring him because I love everything about him and I except everything about him whether it be good or bad.? This just really tears me apart. What is wrong with him, am I wasting my time trying to save the most special relationship I've ever had?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:08 AM on Nov. 24, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by armywife43 at 1:29 AM on Nov. 24, 2008
Answer by Anonymous at 2:04 AM on Nov. 24, 2008
I had the same stuff going on with my husband for the first half of our twenty year marriage. I finally had enough and I threw him out and it was only then that he worked his ass off to try and repair our marriage. He said that he did what he did 'cause he knew that I would put up with it since I put up with all his other garbage throughout the years. Do yourself a favor and stop being so accommodating. This is no kind of life for any one. Separate and do so on your terms. If you keep putting up with this type of behavior, he will be playing you for a lifetime.
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