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My soon-to-be-step-son

He's really rude. Hes 7 years old. And he cusses a lot at his dad and me. What can I do about it?

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Heather4kidos

Asked by Heather4kidos at 9:49 PM on Mar. 14, 2011 in School-Age Kids (5-8)

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  • talk to you soon to be husband about it. That you dont like it and he shouldnt be saying thoese things.
    LittleBirdFly

    Answer by LittleBirdFly at 9:53 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • Well if you and your soon to be husband can't seem to get him to stop then maybe seek outside help, a counselor, therapist, something like that. A 7 year really shouldn't be acting out like that. I would even maybe talk to his doctor and see what he/she has to say. GL.
    Bamzakarat

    Answer by Bamzakarat at 9:56 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • Maybe he is angry and needs some counseling? Maybe he just needs a place to say how he feels and to safely express what he see's.
    pinkdragon36

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 9:58 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • talk to his father there are probably bigger issues going on with him.
    katcb1019

    Answer by katcb1019 at 11:24 PM on Mar. 14, 2011

  • What have you done about it so far? Is he aware of your house rules? Have you set up some consequences for bad behavior?
    meooma

    Answer by meooma at 12:36 PM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • Wow, being that is it both of you dad needs to whip his little butt.
    yesmaam

    Answer by yesmaam at 3:39 PM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • Talk to your husband about it. That is his son.
    gemgem

    Answer by gemgem at 3:40 PM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • If his dad don't discipline him, you may should think twice before jumping into that marriage. If you thinks its bad now, just wait, it will get worse after you two marry.
    Honda309

    Answer by Honda309 at 4:50 PM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • Your husband and you both need to set strict rules and boundaries for while he is at your home. It sounds to me like he is not getting discipline when he is with his mother?
    KTMOM

    Answer by KTMOM at 11:15 AM on Mar. 16, 2011

  • You? Not much. Your soon to be husband needs to control that one.
    Pnukey

    Answer by Pnukey at 8:25 PM on Mar. 17, 2011

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