Ok, long story short, my DH and his dad are on the worst of terms, DH hates his dad for a long history of abuse that I won't get too deep into. What little I know of my FIL makes me kind of afraid of him. So here's the weird thing; it's DH's birthday today and I got a message from FIL and his wife (he and MIL divorced more than 20 years ago) and they want me to wish him a happy b-day and tell him they love him, they also send their love to me and DD. They've also requested that I add them on facebook. Now, under different circumstances it wouldn't bother me and I wouldn't think twice about adding them, but because of DH's strong feelings I don't want to just add them and start a fight with him, especially on his b-day. I don't really know these people aside from what he's told me. Any ideas/advice/etc. out there? I don't want to be rude, but I REALLY don't want to ruin DH's b-day.
Answer by rosetoes at 3:06 AM on Mar. 15, 2011
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