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Do you hold grudges, or do you move on??

Not just with SO, everyone you deal with.

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Asked by Musicmom80 at 10:38 AM on Mar. 15, 2011 in Relationships

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  • no , its not necessary , but alot of people do for sure

    Answer by letstalk747 at 10:39 AM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • i try to move on. sometimes its hard for me though depends on the sitation

    Answer by jodi205 at 10:40 AM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • I try my hardest to let go. It might take a while and/or a lot of personal work, but the end result is usually worth it. Unless it is DH's oldest sister. She's burned all of us one too many times.

    Answer by balagan_imma at 10:41 AM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • For the most part I do try to let it go and move on, although there have been a few times when I have held a grudge against certain people for some of the things they have done. (most of those grudges have eventually been let go).

    Answer by MizLee at 10:48 AM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • It totally depends on the situation

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 10:52 AM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • "Holding a grudge is letting someone live rent-free in your brain."

    I found that quotation and it stuck with me.

    Answer by CraftingMama at 10:53 AM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • I say what I need to say and get it out there, although it may take me a little time to make sure I say exactly what I want to say, but once I have said my peace then I can move on.

    Answer by 2boysnaprincess at 11:11 AM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • I always try to move on. Grudges are pointless.

    Answer by HKing01 at 11:12 AM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • I move on, I have enough things to juggle. I don't have a hand left over to carry a grudge too!

    Answer by hootie826 at 11:13 AM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • Unfortunately i hold grudges. I'm trying to work on it but it's hard. I get it from my mom, She's worse! I wanna be able to forgive and forget the past but i just can't get past shit ugh!

    Answer by lashes325 at 11:25 AM on Mar. 15, 2011

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