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I just want to see what most Mommy's think!
If you had 5 kids, and you married a man with no kids, and he really didn't like your kids, would you send them back to their real dad , to make your current hubby happy? Personally, I would leave him before I would EVER et him tear my kids from me! But some people are simply selfish, and man-reliant!


Asked by Anonymous at 12:56 PM on Mar. 15, 2011 in Parenting Debate

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Answers (28)
  • If I was to remarried another guy HE better love my children if not there's no relationship. It will be a rocky road for both new husband and my children. Why would any mother put their new husband 1st. Children should come 1st in a mother's life. What the hell is wrong with moms that guys come first. My kids come 1st I gave birth to my children. No guy will ever replace my children.

    Answer by bmwlover at 8:23 PM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • I would never get involved with a man that didn't like my kids..

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 12:57 PM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • No I wouldnt. I had 4 coming into my marriage and up front he knew my kids were first OVER him and I could always get a new husband or SO I could not replace my kids.

    Answer by gemgem at 12:58 PM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • hell no! im a package deal

    Answer by tnm786 at 12:58 PM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • I would show him where the door was. My kids mean the world to me and if he doesn't love the kids then I couldn't see how he could love me.

    Answer by amber1330 at 1:02 PM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • no i would not, i would tell him he should have gotten involved with someone that had no kids and he is welcome to leave.

    Answer by tiffanyv123 at 12:59 PM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • NEVER. I would never send my kids away for any reason.

    Answer by meooma at 12:59 PM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • and also my husband isn't the father of my oldest. he came into our lives when she was 6 months.. and treated her like gold. much better than her actual father did. now she's 4 and only calls him daddy. you really can't find a better man than a man who loves a kid as his own.

    Answer by tnm786 at 12:59 PM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • He would not be man enough to be in my life. I would not send my kids off.

    Answer by tiddliwinks at 1:00 PM on Mar. 15, 2011

  • Nope I wouldn't be with a man who couldn't love my kids . and I certainly couldn't send my children away.

    Answer by momto4girzls at 1:00 PM on Mar. 15, 2011