There has never been a trusting relationship with In-laws due to their need to be disrespectful of me to other family members. They have over stepped their boundaries in several areas and I allowed it bc my DH was not able to see my view at the time. After some counseling we have been working to see each others views and be supportive.
I have decided that in order to clear the air with the In-laws that I need to confront their disrespectful actions towards me. I have only a few areas that really have been over the top and feel that I need to state my part/feelings on these topics.
In addition to the discussion I feel that is wise to setup boundaries to prevent a continuous cycle of disrespect from continuing within this relationship. I am not sure if I ask them why they feel the need to treat me with disrespect or if I should just state my boundaries politely with them. I don't want to open the door to unneeded insults from them.
Helpful Advice would be appreciated.
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