So I met this guy. We did the email thing for a bit. Then chatted on FB for a bit before exchanging numbers. Then we txt for a bit. I would say about 2 weeks of messaging before actually talking on the phone. Then we talked, then met and had dinner and talked for a few hours our first date. Then the next week was the same messaging and talking. For the majority of these messages he would txt me early before going to work to say Good Morning and some through out the day. And always before bed to say Good Night. Saw him for an evening again, then he left for vacation. We talked A LOT during his vacation, that he instigated. A lot of saying I wish you were here, etc. When he came back from vacation I met him that day at his house. He even gave me the code to get into the house. Spent the afternoon with him before picking up my kids from daycare. The next day was Saturday and he got his one daughter. Then on Sunday he got his stepdaughter (he still has shared custody of her because he has been in her life for 11 years now). I did get a txt Sunday night saying it was a long day, he had caught his daughter sending nude pix of herself to her boyfriend, she is 15. Then yesterday I txt him a short thing about my exercise workout (we are both runners) and he did return my txt later. Haven't heard a thing from him since. I know he is busy getting back to the swing of things, stuff with his girls. But even when he had his girls for the month before all this there was a lot more communication. I am not going to msg him or txt him.....as much as I want. I'm not sure what happened, if I am reading into it too much. Things were great, getting to know one another on an emotional level by talking all those weeks. It seemed like we are very compatable and I want to persue dating and see if a relationship comes of it.
Why do guys all at once, with no warning, back off???? What and when should I contact him again?? Any suggestions? I am confused and lost LOL
Asked by Anonymous at 7:13 PM on Mar. 15, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Kimimale at 7:22 PM on Mar. 15, 2011
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