There is this father I know. and he leaves the door open when he uses the restroom ( i have had to tell him and close it at my house. He has a son and daughter the daughter is the same way. they were visiting recently and my mom was supervising my little one in the bath and the little girl wanted to go in the bathroom . my mom told her nicely to go out. she opened the door and came in again my mom told her again more firm. the little girl told her i WANT TO WATCH HER TAKE A BATH. I notice dad dresses her in supper short skirts and the end of her but short. she lifts them up. other mom's are like oh my what is she wearing. she is only 6 years old. someone told me the same day the little girl was sitting on dad lap and he kept patting it like you might a girlfriend.
she sleeps with him when she comes for vists and climbs all over him. she calls him mommy and calls him to clean her when she use the restroom
I am not sure if there is something going on here or what but before I call child services if I am over reacting. but i find it odd that a dad would leave a door open and be ok with his daughter seeing his privites. especially in today day and age.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 9:54 PM on Mar. 15, 2011 in General Parenting
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Answer by CalebsMommy0220 at 10:56 PM on Mar. 15, 2011
I have 3 children 14, 12 and 9. I have 2 boys and 1 girl. We all pee with the door open, we talk to each other or brush our teeth while someone is going. My boys will walk in on me when I am peeing and my husband still helps my DD after she has taken a shower. I think that if the child is uncomfortable then you stop, until then I personally don't think there is anything wrong with it. My DH doesn't think of our DD is a sexual way at all and she still asks him to lay down with her when it is time for bed. Sometimes if she has a bad dream at night she might come into our room and lay down with us.
As far as how she is dressed, it could just be that the dad has no idea how to dress her. Sounds like he is a single dad who only has visitation so maybe he is dressing her in the clothes the mother sends. I would not let my DD do that although maybe he doesn't realize there is something wrong with that.
Answer by cornflakegirl3 at 4:27 AM on Mar. 16, 2011